"Are Nocturnal Emissions (Wet Dreams) Sinful?"
I have question about nocturnal emissions or wet
dreams. As a Christian seeking to to be released from
sexual temptation, your writings have helped me center my thoughts on
truth and gain victory over my temptations through the
power of Christ's blood. Despite these victories, and
perhaps in spite of them, I am being plagued by
nocturnal emissions.
Six months ago I gave my homosexuality over to Christ and
am no longer living as a gay man. I have, however, struggled
with the temptation to masturbate. It took me a while to recognize
masturbation as sexually immoral. So I am no longer masturbating
either.
At this point I began having frequent
nocturnal emissions. It is somewhat embarrassing
because it usually seems to be a problem that
adolescents have; I am 22.
There have been some noticeable differences in how my
nocturnal emission are occurring now than in the past.
The biggest difference is that my dreams are often
not sexual in content, where as in the past they
usually were.
Scripture surprisingly seems to mention this more
directly than masturbation, or at least in the Old
Testament. It tells us that it is unclean, but
compared to the verbiage used to describe homosexuality,
it would seem it is not as bad. Is it wrong, though?
Am I sinning, and if so, how do I keep from sinning
when I am asleep? Do you think that they could be
caused by spiritual attacks, or is it simply my body
wanting to relieve tensions? I am truly concerned and
very confused about this.
Thank you for a most open and encouraging email. You have made some
tremendous strides forward in His grace that are humbling to read for
one who has not struggled with the intensity you report.
To answer your major question, nocturnal emissions are universally
understood to be a normal bodily response to accumulated semen. You
never really stop producing semen and when you are not providing an
outlet either through sexual intercourse or masturbation your body must
expel the excess. I find it quite interesting that the content of your
dreams associated with the emissions have changed as you have responded
in obedience. What an incredible confirmation that God is honored by
your choices. It should also be of interest to you that God has provided
a moral release of these fluids apart from sexual activity. God has
provided for abstinence and obedience!
Concerning the uncleanness issue, remember that a woman's menstrual
period was also considered a time of uncleanness in the Law of Moses. It
is still normal and not sin, just unclean. Part of the reason for
ceremonial uncleanness in the Old Testament was for simple hygienic
reasons that early Israel would not fully understand so God gave laws
for them to abide by.
In regard to their frequency, though I am not a medical doctor, I would
expect for the frequency of emissions to diminish over time as your body
adjusts to your abstinent choices. Our bodies are quite flexible and
will adjust to most changes we institute. For instance, as you eat less,
your stomach will eventually shrink a bit and it actually takes less to
fill you up. As you begin to eat more, your stomach can begin to expand
to accommodate the larger volume. So too with nocturnal emissions. I
suspect that as your "demand" is reduced, production of semen will
eventually slow down though never cease altogether.
Therefore I would not consider your emissions as sinful at all, just a
natural bodily response to your current obedient choices. Be assured
brother, you are not in sin! Not in the least! This is actual
confirmation of correct choices. I rejoice with you and pray your
unnecessary guilt will melt away.
Respectfully,
Ray Bohlin, PhD
Probe Ministries
About the Author Raymond G. Bohlin is president of Probe Ministries. He is a graduate of the University of Illinois (B.S., zoology), North Texas State University (M.S., population genetics), and the University of Texas at Dallas (M.S., Ph.D., molecular biology). He is the co-author of the book The Natural Limits to Biological Change, served as general editor of Creation, Evolution and Modern Science, co-author of Basic Questions on Genetics, Stem Cell Research and Cloning (The BioBasics Series), and has published numerous journal articles. Dr. Bohlin was named a 1997-98 and 2000 Research Fellow of the Discovery Institute's Center for the Renewal of Science and Culture.
What is Probe? Probe Ministries is a non-profit ministry whose mission is to assist the church in renewing the minds of believers with a Christian worldview and to equip the church to engage the world for Christ. Probe fulfills this mission through our Mind Games conferences for youth and adults, our 3-minute daily radio program, and our extensive Web site at www.probe.org. Further information about Probe's materials and ministry may be obtained by contacting us at: Probe Ministries 1900 Firman Drive, Suite 100 Richardson, TX 75081 (972) 480-0240 FAX (972) 644-9664
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