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Public reaction to football
star Michael Vick’s confession and apology for dog fighting has been passionate
and polarized. Was he sincere? Or was it just a last resort when cornered by
the law, a PR move to help rehabilitate his image and financial future?
The crimes were abhorrent. Underperforming
canines were executed by hanging and drowning. This sickening stuff hits many folks
in their guts, hard and deep.
He faces legal consequences.
But should you and I forgive him?
Genuine Contrition?
Vick says, “Dog fighting is
a terrible thing, and I did reject it. I'm upset with myself … through this
situation I found Jesus and asked him for forgiveness and turned my life over
to God.”{1}
“Smooth but not convincing,”
cry some. “It’s just a show. He’s a disgusting person and a terrible role model.
Off with his head!” Others quote English poet Alexander Pope, “To err is
human, to forgive divine.”
Perhaps time will tell how
sincere he was. Some wonder, “Michael Vick didn’t do anything to me, so for
what could I forgive him?” True, he may not have harmed you personally. But
he did violate society’s laws and many people’s sense of decency. Public
figures’ actions can have wide social impact. The fact that lots of kids looked
up to him compounds the anger many feel when they indicate they could never
accept his apology or forgive him for the harm he’s done.
Indeed, negative feelings
expressed toward Vick sometimes sound visceral, as if the speakers themselves
had been injured. Frederic Luskin, former director of the Stanford
Forgiveness Project, says, “Our bodies react as if we're in real danger
right now to a story of how someone hurt us seven years ago. … You’re feeling
anger, your heart rhythm changes … breathing gets shallow.”{2}
Can you and I forgive
Michael Vick?
Consider a wise woman who
wrestled with similar feelings. Corrie ten Boom and her
Dutch family hid Jews from the Nazis during World War II. For this she endured
Ravensbruck, a concentration camp. Her inspiring story became a famous book and
film, The Hiding Place.
Chilling Memories
In 1947 in a Munich church, she told a German audience that God forgives.{3} “When we confess our sins,”
she explained, “God casts them into the deepest ocean, gone forever.” After
her presentation, she recognized a man approaching her, a guard from
Ravensbruck, before whom she had had to walk naked. Chilling memories flooded
back.
“A fine message, Fraulein!”
said the man. “How good it is to know that, as you say, all our sins are at the
bottom of the sea!” He extended his hand in greeting.
Corrie recalled, “I, who had
spoken so glibly of forgiveness, fumbled in my pocketbook rather than take that
hand. He would not remember me …. But I remembered him and the leather crop
swinging from his belt. I was face to face with one of my captors, and my blood
seemed to freeze.”
The man continued: “You
mentioned Ravensbruck in your talk.... I was a guard there. … But since that
time … I have become a Christian. I know that God has forgiven me for the cruel
things I did there, but I would like to hear it from your lips as well, Fraulein.”
He extended his hand again. “Will you forgive me?”
Forgive Him?
Corrie stood there, unable
to forgive. As anger and vengeful thoughts raged inside her, she remembered
Jesus’ death for this man. Of His executioners He said, “Father, forgive these
people, because they don’t know what they are doing.” {4}
How could she refuse? But
she lacked the strength. She silently asked God to forgive her and help her
forgive him. As she took his hand, she felt a “healing warmth” flooding her
body. “I forgive you, brother!” she cried, “With all my heart.”
“And so,” Corrie later
recalled, “I discovered that it is not on our forgiveness any more than on our
goodness that the world’s healing hinges, but on [God’s]. When He tells us to
love our enemies, He gives, along with the command, the love itself.”
If Corrie could forgive one
who did her such harm, should we be willing to consider forgiving a public
figure whose actions harm society? Could what Corrie found in faith help manage
overwhelming anger and rage?
Will you and I forgive
Michael Vick?
Notes
1. Text of Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick's statement, USA Today, August 27, 2007, www.usatoday.com/sports/football/2007-08-27-2672656486_x.htm
2. "Peace Work," Stanford Magazine, Joan O'C. Hamilton, 2001,
http://www.stanfordalumni.org/news/magazine/2001/mayjun/features/forgiveness.html.
3. Corrie ten Boom, "Death Camp Revisited," Worldwide Challenge, July/August 1994, 35-36.
4. Luke 23:34 NLT.
© 2007 Probe Ministries
About the Author Rusty Wright, associate speaker and writer with Probe Ministries, is an international lecturer, award-winning author, and journalist who has spoken on six continents. He holds Bachelor of Science (psychology) and Master of Theology degrees from Duke and Oxford universities, respectively. He can be reached at
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